How To Have A Blissful Relationship
A blissful relationship can be one of the toughest things that we, as human beings have. The toughest part is keeping it in that blissful state. the continual striving to be better at what we are and who we are to our better halves. I believe that there are different levels of relationship building.
Here are some tips for getting your relationship on the fast track to a blissful relationship
- Express your thoughts and feelings to each other as soon as they occur. This is to eliminate any feelings that may have time to fester. The time gap elimination is really a peace saver.
- Learn to give expression to what you feel without blaming. There’s always a positive response to everything!
- Listen to your partner in an open, non-defensive way. Give your partner space for expressing himself or herself. Be present. Accusing, defending, attacking are ways of tearing down what you have built-in your relationship.
- (BONUS) Giving space to others–and to yourself–is vital. Love cannot flourish without it.
When you have removed the two factors that are destructive to relationships and if your partner has done the same, you will experience a blissful relationship. This is, in short, the beginning steps of the flowering of relationship.
Instead of mirroring to each other your pain or satisfying your mutual addictive ego needs, reflect back to each other the love that you feel deep within. This will give you much more reward by showing love rather than lashing out at each other because your partner did something that doesn’t agree with you.
Communicate with your partner and discuss, in a low tone to seek to find the truth rather than to tear down and achieve the selfish goal of being right all the time.